The invitation says simply "to stay", which in the British countryside means four dress codes, a sense of humour, and some ibuprofen. A weekend at a smart house runs to a rhythm older than any of its guests - informal dinner on Friday after the race up from London, outdoor pursuits through Saturday, smart dinner and dancing that same night, and a restorative breakfast on Sunday that nobody dresses for. It is less a weekend than a triathlon with better catering. Here's how to organise your overnight bag...
Friday Night: The Informal Dinner
"Informal", in the country, does not mean what it means in London: no black tie, but no jeans either - the sartorial equivalent of a firm handshake. The Camden Jacket in Iberian Wine cotton velvet is made for exactly this: a Nehru collar, fabric-covered buttons and working jetted pockets, cut in London. Wear it over a simple silk dress or with cigarette trousers, and let the velvet do the charming.
